I have always questioned the common sense that it is normal for women to grow their hair long.
However, I grew up as a woman, and when I was little, my parents’ policy made me have short hair, and when I was in junior high school, my hair, which I had grown little by little since I was in the upper grades of elementary school, was suspected of having lice and was cut off to cry, and my obsession with long hair became worse and worse, and I maintained long hair longer than my waist until I was 20 years old.
After I started working as a member of society, I shortened it a little, but I still put my long hair together and as I got busy with work, to be honest, I sometimes felt that it was troublesome to take care of it, but because I had been growing it for a long time, I regretted cutting it off, and I said, “Well, just put it together in the morning, I don’t have to worry about my sleeping habits, and it’s easier to return without having to style it.” It was hard to cut it.
At that time, I was unfortunate enough to be a victim of a sexual crime, and even a second rape, so I was even accused of “you can’t do it because you carelessly walk alone on the street at night,” and I took it seriously and felt terrified to go out, and I couldn’t go to work for a while.
After a rough life for a while, such as being abandoned and working in a sex industry as soon as my savings ran out, fortunately with the help of a close friend, I was able to return to my daytime work, but I couldn’t dress like I used to, and I shaved my hair and didn’t wear makeup, pants style, and my face was hidden by sunglasses, and I became defensive thoroughly.
Because they are tall, if they wear clothes that do not show their body lines, they will glance at them and say that they are of unknown gender.
The good thing about the cropped hairstyle is that it is easy to care for.
I don’t have to spend on shampoo, conditioner, hair styling products, hair accessories, beauty salons, etc., and I can save money, and I can wash my hair with my body, which saves me time, and I feel good because I don’t have to spend days not washing my hair because “washing it every day will damage it” like when I had long hair, and I can always have a clean head.
Only the head after the shower was able to say goodbye to dirty unpleasant sensations.
Now I think it’s filthy to have dead cell hair hanging next to my face all the time, and I don’t like the stuffy fragrance and sebum and sweaty smell stored in other people’s long hair.
Since I couldn’t hide my face with my hair, my expression naturally became richer, and my facial muscles were trained, and my face became smaller.
Everyday care is also very easy because you just cut it yourself with clippers and scissors, and you don’t have to carefully do it while checking how it looks.
Above all, the biggest advantage is that we were able to break away from the old idea that “hair is the life of a woman.”
In the first place, I don’t associate with people with old values who criticize me for being funny because I’m very short.
No matter what hairstyle I am.
